Mr. Nut You can show care not even being with her...U know u have to make a "click" happen in her mind which starts her thinking about you, once she starts thinking about you..then its all yours....here are some tips they are really helpful man 1. start remembering her likes and dislikes and do what she like as if u don't know c likes doin that, for eg in a guff gaff if c says c want to buy something..books, bla bla...give her 2. Take out time man and LISTEN TO HER, this is the best part...just listen to her and be a good listener...praise her deeds and positively contradict...but u know..praise her as much as u can... 3. call her time to time ...or sms her..quering whether c has eaten, ask her to eat properly rest...bloody these are bullshit basics of life but still gals likes someone who cares on very minute things on her 4. Girls definately wears dresses a lot..praise her blindly man, remember her dresses and colour and someday...just tell her " timi tyo luga ma kati suhaucha..pheri lagauna..." 5. and most importantly do PEP TALKS..remember " GUYS fall through eyes and GALS fall through ears.." so talk that..what c likes... 6. REMEMBER her minute details and explain her after few days...like " timilay austi yo vaneko thiyo..timilay yo manparcha vaneko thiyo...." thats all man....and c the changes and don't forget to mention here on sajha