Robert... I think what you said was totally right.. I mean if the gal and the guy are already out of the relationship.. then its alright... tara when the relationship is going on fine and this guy's like "wha the hell!!i will only care abt myself.. the hell with the guy!!" man that sucks!! I dunno why guys even think abt breaking stuff off.. what he has for the gal is only a mere crush or maybe an infatuation!! tara what THEY have is most likely to be love....ppl need to THINK before initiating any step!!