"My flower if you read this dont get mad and even if you have a bf i dont mind because in the end you will be my destiny" I am just creating some scenarios here. Think for yourself. A handsome couple are happy with their lives. A sudden thunder arrives, shakes them, shatters their dreams, and takes everything away. Next one: A guy and a girl are in love. They were staying happy but for some time they start developing some trouble in their relationship. The guy is a good guy. He likes her very much but the girl's got somethin' wrong. She slowly starts talking to a guy on the phone. Says, he's just a friend, but as life goes on, she starts talking more and more. The guy is already very sad. He even tries to convince the girl that, he cares for her, and the guy is not the right one. He cares for her very very much. Gives her everything she wants. But in the end, she breaks his heart for another guy. Just some few, can be more. But when people say things like, alright he's got a bf so what, I am going for her. Pathetic thinking! Believe me man, when the girl goes away, there is nobody to sympathize with that poor guy who is alone. He will be the one to bear the burden for well, most probably, a very long time. He will feel that he couldn't do anything for her, which by the way, nobody knows how much he must have done. I mean, I am not saying that there can't be any disputes in a relationship. In this case, I would rather say, because I like her very much, if she comes, it will be great, but she's already got a bf, so I would rather not bother her. People have different opinions, proabably just my way of thinking.