For Meri Nepal Aama's information, Indian troops were stationed in Kalapani area from the 1970s. It was only after the 1990's change of system that brought about the truth to general public. However, in principles, I also think that India's intentions were not always good while dealing with Nepal and we cannot expect them to unselfishly help us at our need. We have to restore democracy ourselves rather then expecting from Indian or American pressure. The democracy thus obtained will be potentially messy. Saying so, you shouldn't ignore the importance of a good relationship between India however nicely the relationship with china developes. My point is, don't blame India or Indians but blame our own rulers for not being able to estabilish a good diplomatic relationship with the neighbours. If Nepalese rulers were good, neighbours and international friends would not be uncooperative.