Oki... I hadnt read what puppy wrote till now.. and I dont think that u can generalize girls as a whole as you did... it might be true in some cases.. but nice guys being dorky isnt always right... well.. and gals liking bad boys coz they can have IT and then move on is SO not true.. i mean.. this is the first time I saw a gal say that.. and maybe its true in some cases.. but again.. DO NOT generalize that as everyone's response... I think tht I would like a guy who wud give a helpin hand to mom.(infact i like guys who give a hand to moms).. and be nice.. and respect the distance.. and willing to leave u home at 5(if thats what u want).. I mean whats the biggie abt that??? and how can you know that IT sucks.. khai there always is a BAD side to a guy.. no matter how much of a good guy he is... So as far as I think.. if the guy gives u space, makes u feel special and u think u can relate to him... does the nice guy really make a difference??