junkiennepali.....well lemme put it like this way!! too much of abortion is mostly seen in unmarried couple. abortion defines chioce!!.......>well if they are married as u mentioned ;....thn i guess this view would be fine to explain. keep rocking.................> When a couples is in a marriage it's also mean that their heart and soul should also be one. So whenever any party wanna take a serious action then they have to discuss the issue with each other. It's also a away of respecting each other. if both party start doing what they like then the marriage will not work....!!! Instead the issue will become more complicated. Your husband can never trust on you in the future. I know that there are some career minded women out there who give first priority to their work and then their family. If you are not ready to take responsibility of having a baby and your husband insist on having the baby then you should make it very clear that he have to take the responsible of the child rather than you.....he have to do more of the task of taking care of the baby than you....if needed he should be the one who should quit his job instead of you....if he agree with all that then problem is solve.....there is no reason of going for the abortion...