mmmmmmmmmm sex? Everyone needs it in varying degrees. I agree with poonte that the more you do to whitewash it the dirtier it becomes. Okay --- what is it we are talking about here? The act of copulation or the broader and hence more nebulous term SEX? The act itself has gone beyond the function of procreation --- and for most of us it remains a private act and has taken on the additonal role of reinforcing emotional ties.