OKi let me jot down an explanation for my response.... Well Indisguise ji.. I was referring to the Spanish philosopher.. I really do think that a person falls in love not with another person but he falls in love with THE THOUGHT of the other person. And then there comes a day when the reality hits u straight on the face.. well and about the commercializing thing.. I cant say that I agree with you in that aspect.. I mean it is commercialising to some extene.. tara valentine is a day to tell the person what u HAVE in your heart... I hope its clear this time.. chow!!:)