kiki, I have been using two calling cards: Himtel's and SuperClean (a cheap calling). I have only been able to connect Kathmandu through Himtel's - that too after numberous tries. I have programmed the access numbers, PINs and phone number in Nepal in my telephone. So, I keep dialing the number in sequence. Sometimes I get lucky. Outside Kathmandu could be even more unpredictable. Unless your bf is a anti-monarchist / political activist, he is most likely safe and sound. Hope it helps.