i bet u are also gonna like this poem.... when i ask u to listen to me and u start giving me advice u have not done what i asked. when i ask u listen to me and u begin to tell me why i shouldn't feel that way u are trampling on my feelings when i ask u listen to me dont talk or do ..just hear me advice is cheap ,20 cent will get u both dear abby and billy grahm in same newspaper. and i can do for myself ;i am not helpless may be discouraged and flatering; but not helpless when u do something for me that i can do for myself u contribute to my fear and inadequency but when u accept as simple fact that i feel what i feel no matter how irrational, then i can stop trying to convience u get about this business of understanding whats behind this irrational feeling. and when that's clear,the answer are obvious and i dont need advice irrational feeling make sense when we understand whats behind them perhaps that why prayers works sometimes. for some people-coz god is mute and he doesn;t give any advice or try to fix things god just listen and lets u work it out for yourself so please listen and just hear me . and if u wanna talk wait a min for ur turn and i'll listen 2 u. don know writer.