Thank you guys so much!!! It is such a pleasure to know about your kids too. I can imgaine how happy it makes you to see your children grow :) Kalebhut, pasni is the first time you feed your baby with rice. Ok 5 months it is then..... yes i could ask my parents to send it for me... but they are quite old and i did not want to bother them to run around. I live in Arizona so i dont know the DC pandit ji phone number. Maybe i could ask the pandit here too.... but most of them are indians and i am not sure if we do the same thing... i mean i dont know if they do the kalli and baala stuff :) But you guys have been great and i want to thank each one of you for the advice. I will definitely put up my daughter's pictures.