Shirish! Well i was little bit serious!! you know I was not too much evolved in it anyway. I liked ur 10 points and thought should reply you. Well, i personally do not have any problem and i guess neither my parents have any problem in coming here. But i would think before calling them about whether i would be able to make them happy! you know we will be busy here most of the time and of course you have to think about the financial constraints that you may have. My point is i will call them only when i feel that i would be able to make them feel good and bring them into different places. I think i am talking something different then ur asking to post. Anyway, they are the reasons for your question- 1 In winter since they may get caught up by cold and asthma 2 I share my apartment with friends (I don't have my own home) 3 I will be busy from 8-5 Monday through Friday and may be in weekends when my research is in progress 4. Since i am unmarried and you know she is not there to take care of them when i am busy 5. May dad likes to chew pan quite often 6 They won't take food from outside and i have to make food for them at least three times a day 7 they like tea and i like coffee 8 There are so many gals who are nearer and dearer to me!! 9 I may not be able to translate their dream into reality and they would know my reality 10 they might not feel too good about me working 80hrs a week!! These are just made points, most of them just do not fit too me. Nut