heheehehe.....well Neetaji....answer to your first question....u seems like to go thru lots of trouble to find your soulmate no matter how many heart u have to broke...as for me, i would love to find it with less trouble if possible....that way i wouldn't be hurting too many gals heart & feeling.... As for your second question.....don't take the statement narrowly....by just thinking about boy and girl relationship....what if this happen between a couple who were married.....they married in the first place b'coz they were in love right or maybe they thought they were....but later maybe something cock up and they start to hate one another rather than love each other....that's the reason why now-a-days there lots of divorces going on. When u are in love with a person and u tell him/her that u love him/her looking into his/her eyes with your whole pure clean heart.... then it is love....no matter the relationship did not last due to certain reasons. In such a case u can't just put off the issue by saying that it was just a infatuation. People say that to put their heart to rest. If not then why would they cried their heart out when they out of love. i say there was a love but which only lasted a short period. It just like a life.....some love live longer and some live short. Love is not alway accepting but also giving and love is unconditional.....u should criticise it if it did not work out...