deep bro- ekdam thik bhannu bhayo. maile bhanan khojeko pani tyahi ho. sabaile afno "position" (a combination of ideology ra "made up" shared experience) ko aadhar ma aru lai chor dekhna thaley.. chor le ni arko lai chor dekhna thalyo.. sabai ko "victim" ra "blaming" mentality bhayo, yesle garda samasya samadhan huna nasakeko.