I believe the same as some of you guys believe in: "virginity is not an issue to get married". This contemporary age, there are a lot of erotic materials or components, that the erotica can help to arouse your sexual desire. In fact, People break their virgin very easily. The button line is: I don't get married to a girl who takes the sexual matter is not embarrassing yes Retan; the total dedication, commitment and clean heart are the most important values for both, husband and wife...... Unless you are not going to get married there wouldn't be the caring, trust, familiarity, emotional & physical combination, love, and even commitment.