I don't know about this "virgin" "non-virgin" stuff. Though lot of my western(ized) friends scoff at the idea of one being virgin till one gets married, I actually admire the guy/gal for being able to resist today's society's pressure and temptations and be able to save oneself for that special person one vows to live life with. But then, if one is not virgin physically, one could still enter the marriage as a virgin if one bestows oneself to the spouse with total dedication, commitment and clean heart. Nonetheless, point does come to mind, best would be to be able to give one's physical, spiritual virginity to the right person, who is not only your first partner in carnal experience, but also your first love, your life-long partner, your soulmate.