dhanyabaad harkedai, tapai le maile bhaneko kura bujhidinu bhayo. I agree that it is a brave act to go to that area to do research and not just search for materials online BUT it is not ok when you get what was in store for you and complain about it. Let me clarify that. Lets suppose i want to do research on snakes. I can just read about them or i could actually get a live snake and study every part of it. I AM brave to get a live one, or even enter a cage of live snakes and start studying them. BUT it is extremely childish of me to start crying when one of them bits me ( just like it has been biting everyone else everyone in there) Everyone looking at me from outside the cage would say "KE KHANA SARPA LE TOKCHA BHANNE THAHA PAUDA PAUDAI TYAHA BHITRA GAYEKO TA?" Morever, i think it was a bit of arrogance on her part that just because she is a model and a tv star and a daughter of prominent politician in Nepal, she would get any different (and better) treatment. Natra tyesto thau ma jane bhayepaachi ali badhi precaution lina parne, ali dherai sathi haru ko group banayera janu parne, ali low profile ma basnu parne. Esari ekkaichoti aringal ko golo ma haat hale paachi ke huncha ta? Mero posting ma maile Shivani's response in a joke bhannu ko tatparya yehi ho. Ani arko kura ke ho bhane, maathi ashu le bhaneko jasai, ma pani manchu ki nepali women and any other women in the world should not have to live with a fear of being tortured, raped or murdered. I wholeheartedly agree with that. But then I also agree saying that people (men or women) should be able to live without fear of such kind. Innocent people should not be killed. Children should not be hurt (or be made to carry guns for that matter). Old men and women should die their natural death. BUT has that been going on in Nepal? No. And didn't Shivani know that? Yes. Then? what i meant was that although it is shivani's right to live free from fear and not be hurt, given that maoist's have such a bad record of torturing their prisoners and murdering them, she should be thankful (if not to maoists then to God) that she was able to get out of it relatively unharmed. What do you think?