hi fella, whatever way u pick up to start ur relation that counts until u get married. once u married only one thing counts, that is just ''SEX''. even if u'd sex with ur gf before marrige, then u might realize what really matter to keep ur relationship. u know, u can pretend, anyone can pretend that their relation is gr8 or whatever, coz they may say they love eachother or bla bla ......... the really thing is as i said ''SEX''. if u r not good at bed then nothing can bond ur relationship, either u bigin to search for another women/girl or she'll begin to search for khethal(!). well its my view. i may be right or may not. but one thing for sure it does not apply for everyone. coz i've seen some people(couple/husband n wife/gf n bf) they just love eachother n nothing can come between them. hehehe gaf ali badi bha jasto lagyo. jai sambho...