All I have to say is that: What are you looking for? Are you looking for a life partner, a friend, to grow up together in life and share each and every moments together or someone who listens to you always, doesn''t talk back at you, does what you ask of her, no fightback, always peace in the family (so you think). You can listen as much as you want to what your dad have to say but its your life and at some point you have to make a decision.