Today i met my dad.......he came to see ....and started talking about wedding... His point were........ 1. when u marry you marry mother of your kids 2. When u marry ......looking for westernaisation is like salt.......too much is salty...little is not tasty.......so must balance......and its upto u to limit it 3. love marriage brings everything in table.....nice talks........but when when u get married brings problem with adjustment 4. Married to gf......ex, she will say put this shoes there and shocks there but your wife.....she will tell but do it herself as well 5. Love marriage brings trouble disscussion on table but arrange marrige fixes it 6. Love marriage for ex, fight with gal...she goes back to home...her parents may say leave him but arrange marriage ....her parents try to solve problem 7. Arrange marriage brings more love and it glues relationship after kids........but love marriages.......its breaks it up.....not in all case dyamm...........i cant tell all but any views on it