well again..i m talking about relation...have seen a lot in this...friends..and many more..but most of the cases i have found the guys are more serious on it...many places gals might appeared saying " me n my life" n breaking off and fly to usa with some settled guy...seems no body wants a guy who is struggling for his career...and love/emotions/relation for a struggling guy last only until when his gf founds a settled one....