Rusty, yeah never thought i would start this kinda thread but I am doing it. I guess this is life and we all have to go through it. Urbi, thanx alot for all the valueable information. The link u gave me are really useful. I am joining the support group as well. I really like the idea. I am sure with all your prayers she will be fine soon. IndisguiSe, thanks alot for the support. One thing I still wonder some time how long are you gona hide ur identity. You never told me who really u are and u know about me.