Sorry if i had hurt some of your feelings. I was new to Sajha, so Naya jogi le dheri kharani....... so I may be little bit more critical..... regret for this. But my opinions are also based on facts given below. Facts dont need arguments. I had also stayed outside of Nepal for 10 years, so i myself know what dalbhat and gundruk means for Nepali living outside. One of my friend just returned to Kathmandu after staying 5 years in US. He told me that almost 70 % of nepali children in US are either gays or lesbians. This terrifies me. You might say that its their decision. My friend also said that all those singers and cinema actors who left nepal are working as "managers in indian restaurant" doing all sorts of stuff. Thats fine. It is also their decision. But why these celebrities when they come to Nepal, hide this truth? Why these celebraties dont openly accept they clean indian restaurant in Wisconsin? Izzat jane dar-le ho ki???? No person should be discrinimated based on his occupation. But what is needed is transparency, values, and openness to tell the truth before the Media here in Nepal. But you guys need to be transparent on these issues. Have any one of you communicated these issues in the Sajha forum before??? Why you dont inform the real situation of Nepalies in US? When you try to hide reality, then comes frustration. I am myself an admirer of the people of USA. It is because of you, many families are fed. Great well done. So My advice is: Be transparent, speak the truth. I want to hear the truth face to face. From the one side you talk about Janani Janmabhoomischa..., on the other side you practice fake marriage to get Ferenghi Visa. And also blame Hulaki "a visa rejected frustated dude"! Hulaki Never applied for US visa, not a single time. And is not willing to pay 10-14 lakhs to buy it either. What I see in you guys is that you are suffering from identity crisis. In Nepal, you feel like amricans, in America you are treated as second class citizens. You are hired last and fired first how big professor you may be. Hoina Ra??? So lets discuss these issues in Sajha. May be a consensus can be reached. Because your problems are our nations problems, our nations problems are your problems. Put your cards on the table. But dont hide them, Happy Lochar, Happy new year!!!!!!!!! Hulaki PS could not read fonts of dada gir and sarala. Sorry!!!!!!!! Take care!!!!