Birkhey dai, Darshan garay pavhu... Dai... satya satya.. you're not the only person out there who are having hard time with women.. or a woman.. we men have been in that situation for thousands of years.. women are the most weirdest creature ever created in this planet earth.. Dinasourse, dragon shit even shitmonoster got nothing when you compare them with these nice-innocent looking vicious heart breakers, soul shakers ladiesssss... so watch out... Bro, listen... it's all a game to them.. they think differently then us.. their brain is wired differently.. attraction works differently with them.. if you call them too much, you'll lose your charm- your attraction, which black ppl call gyammmmmm white ppl might call it attraction and we Nepali often mistaken it by "love". bro, don't call her too much, but call her enough to make her crazy about you... i think you called her too much and made her fill like you're a selectee and not a selector.. hence, you're no challenging for her.. you're like a "ghar ki murgee" for her.. and you lost your charam/game/attraction/love(??).. .bhujnu bho dai???? Dai, it's a sisterhood out there... they all speak the same language.. they all want men to stay at home.. watch thier kids and still bring money for them.. it's not thier fault.. it's how female genes works...they always seek for a candadite who can protect them, and feed them and what not.. since the cave days.. languages has changed, dress , behaviors has changed over the years but thier deep down expectation is still the same over the thousands of years.. and you often see one girl supporting another - rather than a man.. evern gone to girls for advice in you love life and found out that she's so b.s and can't understand your sentiments?? duh... cuz you're going to a girl .. she can't understand you although she wants to.. cuz her brain is wired differently.. she can't think or feel as you do... she's a different creature than you.... So bro, these girls wanna tame you.. you don't do that.. you're a male.. you are designed to spread the seed... so go out there and find your suitable mate.. spread your seed a lil' bit.. enjoy and celebrate being a man... and be a slector not a selecteee ... and for heaven's shake.. don't waste your thinking about that girl thousands of miles away.. bro.. look around.. see that blonde with big bleeeppsss??/ how's that.... uh huhhhhhh now you're feelin'... and bro, don't worry about emotional craps.. at least don't go looking for them.. they're like troubles .. they'll come get you.. don't worry.. when it's time.. you'll find that one that will make you marry her. until then.. do what nature wants you to do.. do what natured intended you to do, and let them do what nature wants them to do.. you play you gyammeee bro ;) hajur ko bhai, dyamn bahadur...