No matter how philosophical one might get about marriage after all it's a deal between man-woman, man-man or woman-woman (in countries where same-sex marriage is legally accepted and more tolerated by the society..eg. Canada). If I were to read the KOL article and if a girl were to state a list of such demands and expectations in the real life, then I have no choice but to say that it is a very faulty and gross advertizement and marketing strategy on the part of the girl which will most likely turn off most of most the guys. The guys will most likely turn to less demanding girl and suggest their friends and relatives not to go for such demanding girls as well. If I were to meet such a girl I will certainly ask for the same level of great personal qualities, personality, and achievements from such a girl just to be "fair and resonable". How a guy would feel if a guy who posses almost all of those great qualities and end up with the girl who has such great demands and expecations while she herself posses none of them ", "NONE" my friend..ha ha ha. To be frank, I try to be a perfect person but I'm not a perfect person therefore I dont see it is fair and reasonable for me to look for and expect all those qualities in a girl that I might be looking for. I will certainly look for those qualities in a girl which I also can offer to her. If a girl posses very great qualities, bears great character and has a great track record of achievements then, it is very resonable for her to place such criteria or expectations from prospective guys...... not..all I can say to such a girl(s) is ....................."Great expectations but faulty advertizement and gross marketing strategy"