Meera Said (in response to my earlier posting) "Dude, GROW UP!!!! Drinking and smoking does NOT mean showing your social status. Many girls are prefer non-smokers over smokers which is a good thing. There is a campaign started in our college called, "YES I mind you smoking", with all this anti-smoking campaign going on, you think its cool to smoke. And you think smoking is showing off your social status, dude, u have some SERIOUS issues. I don't need to even go to the stop drinking campaigns." I guess u had a problem understanding my implication, I was just elaborating the normal Nepalese mentality n their expectation,and hence the ground reality over there.Not a question that I it admit or not. Whatever u say(I may say that too) but our social grading system is so impractical that people r judged by money, luxury n eventually their habits. U have money, u go to night outs u drink n u smoke ...there would be ten other people trying to follow u back there ..the gossiping society says "well done dude"...I dont care abt the mentality in ur college or as a whole in US or west....my implication was solidly based on OUR that is NEPALESE menatlity. I never said niether implied that it is COOOOOLLL..so please do take into account of the dimensions before u jump into a quick conclusion..which has rather a personal smell. BY the way what makes u think that I am 'NOT Grown Up'? if u r looking for a healthy discussion try out without making it personal ,I would aprreciate that...First u behave as a grown up then may be u can raise similiar question ... Comments highly appreciated not celf centered egos.