i dont think i've seen any posting by a girl so i'm gonna write. i left the love of my life behind in nepal too, and my days here were miserable coz i missed him terribly. it was hard to say if we would ever meet again and then life didn't even seem worth living anymore. then we decided that nothing was going to change unless we did something to change it. he was not just a bf and i was not just his gf, there was something more, we couldn't imagine spending our lives with someone else, we were totally in love and we would have waited for each other no matter how long it took. i had friends who asked me to be practical and i'm sure he did too, they were like how long are you going to wait, you guys are going to end up with someone else if this takes too long, i say f*u# them!! they were not in my shoes so i didn't expect them to feel how i felt. yeah that's why it's called love, time, distance, age.....nothing matters..there's just that one person and you...hope never dies, dreams never fade away...love is not such a small matter, you can't forget and give up so easily..it's hard but it's worth it right? so give yourselves a chance if you think you are really in love, because i'm sure it doesn't happen often, i say it happens once in a lifetime. o and we did end up together coz he came here and i think it was worth it.