First things first. Men and women DO NOT have the same SVM (sexual marketplace value).

Most average looking women can get sex every hour of every day if they chose to, while an average looking man, especially an ethnic will probably have to creep of at least 50 women before he gets a look. Add to that the skewed single male to single female ratio among Nepalis in the west and you get you an incel overload of males here in the US.

I've seen countless Nepali females working at the mall/restaurant/gas station being picked up by my guys with high incomes in engineering/IT/medical/business but never have I seen the reverse.

Fact is that an average Nepali man has a huge mountain (sometimes that 'mountain' is a large white woman) to climb before getting settled in the US, while most females simply have to show up. Therefore, when a Nepali man calls a Nepali woman a 'bhalu' for marrying a white man, it is only his present or past frustrations getting the better of him. Only if he had it as easy the girl did, who after spreading her legs to a couple of white guys on the d-low and a few tears can guilt them into rescuing them from their F1 status.

Astu,