damodar wrote: "Can a GBNC member have an opinion ? Or you're going to shoot me down everytime I open my mouth." Yes you can have your opinion. why not? but in a responsible way ! " Why Should I thank the Exec. comittee ? I pay to goto every event. I am not getting anything free." Nothing come for free bro. How the heck are they going to pay for your food and the rental? " What I am talking about is the gradual degradation of the organization. " May be you did not set up a good tradition when you were in the executive and the subsequent commitees inheritated the regression. "The community is getting bigger and bigger but they(GBNC) have done noting to help our community. Throwing a picnic and a party is not my idea of our social organization. " Here is the point that I have been trying to tell you. GBNC is not they! GBNC is you, me he. she and collective "we". Your conception has been wrong even though you have become the member of executive committe. Now I can understand where the GBNC went wrong. You distinguished your self as the GBNC by being executive committe and alienated the rest of the growing population. I repeat again GBNC is not the executive committe, it constitutes of all the Nepalese around Boston area. You need to understand that the excutive committe only represents them. GBNC does not equate to the executive committe. If the executive committe fails to deliver means you, me and we collectively fail. "Yo bayena tyo bayena bhanena bhaney kasari thaha huncha ki sabai thiiick chalirakhya cha ki chaina bhanera talai thaha huncha ayyyy moro?" Hazur. Bhanne pani tarika huncha ni ! Esso heradai naheri JPT bhanna paiicha ra? You have been in the committee and you know how difficult it is to organize one function. On top of that you don't want to compliment anyone to boost their morale, because you have paid hoina? You need to pay every where bro..be it a professional organization or GBNC. You failed to establish a revolving fund so the GBNC is suffering now (Just kidding yo chahi) " Or you want to be stuck in the same social heirarchy forever ? Unless you're god how the fk are you going to know unless someone tells you. If my memory serves me right I told your lameass that I have served my time in GBNC when Sunil Sakya,Bhupesh Pradhan, and Sandeep Lama were presidents(when we actually did things for the people). " I think your memory is failing. This is the first time you have revealed your self. BTW who is Bhupesh Pradhan? Bhupesh Pradhan? you better check ! There is a person named Bhupesh who had been the president but not Pradhan. Refresh your memory! And why you did not register GBNC then??? This is one of the concern you raised in your previous thread ! "I have paid my dues." You have to. Every body has to. Paying alone does not releive you from your obligations. Menus and halls dont come for free how do you expect freebees??????? "You cannot bring back Bill Clinton as president even if you want to. My time now is to be a spectator and pass coments(can we have an opinion ?). All the events that this idiot is talking about is what was started waaay back. What has GBNC done recently thats new and fresh ? Same old same old. Do they even think about how to mobilize our community ? How to make our lives better. (being a contributing financial, personal member for part 5-6 yrs)." ASK NOT WHAT I HAVE DONE FOR GBNC, ASK WHAT GBNC HAS DONE FOR ME ? ZERO. I rest my case. " I can not argue with this self centered attitude. Again, GBNC is composed of YOU, ME and collectively WE. It is not owned by anyone. Its inability to give you something means its your failure, my failure and ultimately our's failure. And your perception of equating GBNC with its executive committe is DEAD WRONG as I have explained you before. I asked you one question for the betterment of society and you could not come up with a suggestion.