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 I want to get married but how is it Possible ? HELP HELP

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Posted on 10-06-10 8:31 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hello Friends. . .
I am 27 years old now..Aba Visa pani Sakina Lagyo ani Padhai pani...I want to get married and i do not have any Girl friend in United States i can marry with...To get married i have to go to Nepal and i am not in the situation to go to Nepal at least for a year or 2 (if i am lucky to get Job and H1B or GC). ..If i am stuck here fore 3-4 year i'll be over 30...Guys, this is killing me..I want to get married while i am under 30...what are my options now ??
Find a smart girl in Nepal who can get F1 Visa ? Or what should i do next ? please suggest.......
Pahile sochne garthe, phalano le kina ahile samma bihe nagareko bhanera ? aba afai tyo stiti ma aauda nikai garo hudo raicha......Zindagiko sawal cha..Either i have to leave this country for my happy life ? or face the bitter truth ! 

Damn life is **** up....

College ma euta Indian keti cha, GReen card pani cha tesko, bihe pani garchu bhanche....>Tara Ramri chaina....
Aba bihe garda pani k compromise garne jasto lagcha....malai mann pardaina khasai.....Tesko thotro anuhar herera zindagibhar basnu parcha...

oh god k garne hola...

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Posted on 10-07-10 4:38 PM     [Snapshot: 1018]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@ Rekha
I want to get married for both reasons, i feel lonely as well as i feel like i am getting old.

@mno
I am not looking for perfect but good. As far as i am concerned, i probably don't fit in "Perfect" category but i definitely fall in "good" category.

@Stiffler.
I think you misunderstood what i was trying to say. I am not looking for a girl who is smart and has a GC or Citizenship. I just want to get married to Nepali girl and be able to come back to US. Since my study is going to be over soon and my visa is also getting expired shortly. I am looking for ways to get married and be able to bring my wife here in US while i am still under 30.


 


 


 


 
Posted on 10-07-10 5:17 PM     [Snapshot: 1078]     Reply [Subscribe]
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All I can say is you have 3 more years until you're 30 so good luck buddy, hope you can find your not perfect but good match. ;-)
 
Posted on 10-07-10 5:47 PM     [Snapshot: 1114]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Liar... you want to get married not because you are old or lonely it is because you want a green card.. thukka you turned out to be true nepali politician....you are using a girl and pretending to love her just because she has green card..sometimes look for inner beuty appreciate the things you have...and right now appreciate your indian gf..she truely loves you..do her justice you slimy fag
 
Posted on 10-07-10 11:26 PM     [Snapshot: 1333]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Dude, I could relate to the same issue and guess what, I already have a GC. 

But I guess life's about compromises. I don't even know where to look for Nepali girls albeit I live in California. I'm extremely picky by nature and a girl for a serious relationship, I really don't know how I'm gonna compromise. 



 
Posted on 10-08-10 12:20 AM     [Snapshot: 1371]     Reply [Subscribe]
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bidroh if u use gc as bait for girls im gonna tell u right now ur not gonna be satis in the long run. why? 



 
Posted on 10-08-10 12:29 AM     [Snapshot: 1379]     Reply [Subscribe]
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haha Dekchidriver, nah. 

I do come from a decent family myself and that's one of the reasons why I've "forced" to be picky too....not that they'd care about castes, economic status etc....but still...the girls that I seem to have a liking seem to have been already taken....

Not to mention, the college that I went to had 0 Nepali girls... 

 
Posted on 10-08-10 1:40 AM     [Snapshot: 1432]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Lol bidroh! The good ones are already taken huh? Don't worry bud. Nice guys finish last! 

Cheers. 

 
Posted on 10-08-10 7:59 AM     [Snapshot: 1521]     Reply [Subscribe]
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You say you already have a gc then why are u claiming that the indian girl has GC so what should i do..i think you are fake man...you know the first thing you do is leave the indian girl cause its not fair to her
 
Posted on 10-08-10 9:43 AM     [Snapshot: 1577]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@nepalihero 1


when did i say i have a GC ? if i had a GC, i wouldn't be worried about getting married and bringing my wife from Nepal.

I am in F1 visa and getting expired soon and i m graduating soon as well. That's why i am worried. Don't know what to do and how is it going to be possible to get married while i am still under 30..


I do not want to go above 30 and get married. That would be shame for me.. I don't want to face a situation where, "I'll like a girl, shez very pretty, behavior is nice and everything and she'd reply, Keta pani thikai thiyo tara ali budho bhayo".. . I don't want to be in this situation...


 
Posted on 10-08-10 12:06 PM     [Snapshot: 1656]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Then Study hard graduate with flying color and get a good job believe me dude you will be worrying which girl to choose from
 
Posted on 10-16-10 8:09 AM     [Snapshot: 1938]     Reply [Subscribe]
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nepalihero1 sounds perfectly right bro... no girls at today's age look at your face or body.. or your age.. unless there is really some big defect... all they look is their secured future... so they go wherever they can find one.. 
and moreover.. as of my knowledge girls find it more safer to be with older guys coz they have more understanding and.. some blah blah.. reasons....(hear from couple of girls)
so work hard bro... dont worry about girls... is there any girls who reject my idea about ur feelings??

 
Posted on 10-16-10 8:09 AM     [Snapshot: 1938]     Reply [Subscribe]
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nepalihero1 sounds perfectly right bro... no girls at today's age look at your face or body.. or your age.. unless there is really some big defect... all they look is their secured future... so they go wherever they can find one.. 
and moreover.. as of my knowledge girls find it more safer to be with older guys coz they have more understanding and.. some blah blah.. reasons....(hear from couple of girls)
so work hard bro... dont worry about girls... is there any girls who reject my idea about ur feelings??

 
Posted on 10-16-10 12:31 PM     [Snapshot: 2075]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Purana Kagaz, I think you are too much worried about your age and you are too much worried about other rather than yourself like "Aru le bhancha when i marry after 30 .. bla bla bla". I agree with syal, don't worry about girls, they just need a secure future. Marrying with no mustache, 24yrs , 6 pack body and tip top jobs man is just in film not in real life. Right now I can understand your situation since you are still in F1 and haven't graduated yet. Also you are getting old. Well. THAT DOESN"T MATTER. 
Secure your future first and then secure your life partner. Life is just like that brother. It can't be perfect. 
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Posted on 10-16-10 1:51 PM     [Snapshot: 2115]     Reply [Subscribe]
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ThotreKagaz,

".I want to get married and i do not have any Girl friend in United States i can marry with'
~ You don't have a girlfriend at all or you have some but you don't want to marry them?

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.To get married i have to go to Nepal"
~ Since, you cannot maintain/ never had a healthy committed relationship with a girl here in US, how confident are you that you will find a girl in Nepal who would instantly fall in love with you? Ever wonder, there might be something wrong with you that you need to correct?

"when did i say i have a GC ? if i had a GC, i wouldn't be worried about getting married and bringing my wife from Nepal"
~ Even if you have GC, its not possible. They don't issue a dependent visa for Premanent Resident's spouse. Gotta wait until your citizenship.

"College ma euta Indian keti cha, GReen card pani cha tesko, bihe pani garchu bhanche....>Tara Ramri chaina...."
~ Its ok. Just slap a xerox of her Greencard  on her face, so that you can only see her pros.

 
Posted on 10-16-10 6:02 PM     [Snapshot: 2230]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Euta idea cha....tyo indian keti ko mukh mah euta nepali keti ko photo talde aru tah sabai uii hoo cover the face maro the base 
 
Posted on 10-16-10 8:51 PM     [Snapshot: 2283]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I don't understand the point why do you want to get marry before you turn to be 30?
What's the matter with 31 or 32.....?
Its ridiculous to say that person gets old after 30. Aaaulan 30 pari ka keta haru le pitna feri :P

 
Posted on 10-16-10 11:25 PM     [Snapshot: 2370]     Reply [Subscribe]
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search in craigslist .org, bro good luck

 
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Purana Kagaj Mitra,

There are lots of suggestions for you. I was in same situation 2 years ago. I will give a short cut idea. I finished my master's degree and I started looking girl in Nepal initially thinking I will get H1b and I looked couple girls. Within communication, I committed one family and a girl for getting married. H1b messed up that year and I didn't get H1b but I am always a strong committed boy. I worked hard for getting scholarship for PhD and it took me couple months to get I20 with scholarship. I quit the job, went back Nepal and get married. But the story turns little bit, she was not happy in USA too; she wanted everything in USA for a short period of time. She wanted to study, I asked my professor for her funding and luckily she had funding for study but still studying hard here.  She was still unhappy for everything, in fact her nature is like that. Some people are optimist and others pessimist.

 The conclusions is to get married someone, you are in doing life and death Gambling, if you get good wife, you will be happy, if you get bad wife you will be philosopher or if you don't get wife, you will be philosopher. It is your choice. At point of time in life, someone get really interested getting married (I was over 30 and I was thinking I will be happiest guy after marriage), but after one year you will think that marriage was not the ultimate solution what you are thinking a year ago. If you are thinking US Nepali girls more vulnerable for you, it can be in Nepal too. So, any where it is gambling but if you get good girl in USA, you don't have to teach them how to struggle but if you take someone from Nepal, probably they would never understand what is struggle. Finally, don't worry if you are married either at age of 20 or 30 or 35, you will be fade up all the curiosity within a year, so it is only one amazing year which you have dreamt for whole life. So, take your time, everyone has someone in this world, so you will get someone. Life will go on and civilization will go on.

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Posted on 10-18-10 11:04 AM     [Snapshot: 2771]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I sometimes suggest that ppl write in the language they are comfortable with. Yo last post ke ho ke ho.
 
Posted on 10-18-10 5:02 PM     [Snapshot: 2897]     Reply [Subscribe]
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naam chahi stiffler, bro le teti english pani nabujeko  clear cha ta.. i like the way he wrote... it sounds true.. only one year good experience .. haha.. la la...
 



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