Posted by: timer October 17, 2010
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Purana Kagaj Mitra,
There are lots of suggestions for you. I was in same situation 2 years ago. I will give a short cut idea. I finished my master's degree and I started looking girl in Nepal initially thinking I will get H1b and I looked couple girls. Within communication, I committed one family and a girl for getting married. H1b messed up that year and I didn't get H1b but I am always a strong committed boy. I worked hard for getting scholarship for PhD and it took me couple months to get I20 with scholarship. I quit the job, went back Nepal and get married. But the story turns little bit, she was not happy in USA too; she wanted everything in USA for a short period of time. She wanted to study, I asked my professor for her funding and luckily she had funding for study but still studying hard here. She was still unhappy for everything, in fact her nature is like that. Some people are optimist and others pessimist.
The conclusions is to get married someone, you are in doing life and death Gambling, if you get good wife, you will be happy, if you get bad wife you will be philosopher or if you don't get wife, you will be philosopher. It is your choice. At point of time in life, someone get really interested getting married (I was over 30 and I was thinking I will be happiest guy after marriage), but after one year you will think that marriage was not the ultimate solution what you are thinking a year ago. If you are thinking US Nepali girls more vulnerable for you, it can be in Nepal too. So, any where it is gambling but if you get good girl in USA, you don't have to teach them how to struggle but if you take someone from Nepal, probably they would never understand what is struggle. Finally, don't worry if you are married either at age of 20 or 30 or 35, you will be fade up all the curiosity within a year, so it is only one amazing year which you have dreamt for whole life. So, take your time, everyone has someone in this world, so you will get someone. Life will go on and civilization will go on.
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