to the above poster... why do so many points describe you? The 13 Traits of a Narcissist What do the clinical signs of narcissism look like in everyday life? Grandiose sense of self-importance. This is the belief that your contribution and presence are essential to the happiness, success, or equilibrium of other people and any enterprises or relationships. “The project would have tanked if I hadn’t been on the team.” “If it weren’t for me, who knows where my spouse would have ended up!” Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love. This describes the belief that you are capable of exceptionally high levels of achievement even when your skills or abilities provide no evidence of this being possible. “If I get this job, I’ll soon be writing my own paycheck and running the company.” “I’ll ace the LSAT and get a free ride to Yale law school. Wait and see!” Belief that he or she is special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions. This resembles the “I want to talk to the manager” mindset in that narcissists firmly believe that they should only have to deal with the top-level person in any institution. They try to insert themselves in high-status cliques, meetings, or social groups even if they’re unwanted. “Yes, the director and I go way back; we’re good friends and I know she’ll be eager to hear my perspectives." “I’ll be speaking with the CEO to set up a meeting to talk about these new directives and let them know what my thoughts are on the matter.” Need for excessive admiration. The narcissist isn’t satisfied with a compliment or pat on the back when others offer them as a part of natural conversation. They demand that others admire their appearance, accomplishments, skills, or existence. The admiration of others is what feeds the narcissist. “Isn’t it amazing how the color of this shirt sets off my eyes?” Boasting is second nature to narcissists, and compliments are typically recounted innumerable times to others as proof of their superiority. Sense of entitlement. Narcissists may believe that success takes hard work – but only for others, not for them. They totally believe that they deserve the best tickets, the top score, the nicest room, or the best seat in the house. They don’t even have to verbalize this belief as their behavior and actions clearly communicate their sense of entitlement. Interpersonally exploitive behavior. Narcissists see other people as tools. Their lack of self-awareness is paralleled by a lack of awareness that others exist as individuals with feelings, needs, and desires. “Get out of my way.” “Do me a favor and give up your place in line for me.” Whatever they ask for, it’s in their own selfish interest and they suffer no guilt for expecting others to sacrifice for them. Lack of empathy. This is the cold inability to accurately recognize how other people feel. This speaks to the narcissist's lack of emotional awareness or depth. It is not always that narcissists don’t “care” about another’s feelings, it is just that they are unaware that others might even have those feelings. Envy of others or belief that others are envious of him or her. This describes the narcissist’s constant comparison of themselves to others, wishing for themselves the success others experience, and the false belief that everyone else is envious of them. That’s how they keep their egos intact. Being perceived as “normal” or “subpar” would represent an ego wound they could not handle. A narcissist might say, “Everyone notices me when I enter the room. They know that they’ll never be as successful as me.” Demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes. Arrogance and conceit are traits that are often noticed first in narcissists. This is evidenced by disrespect for the positions or rights of others and the narcissist’s willingness to demand and expect that others will bend to their will. Like exploitative behavior, this behavior can be easily noticed without the narcissist having to say a word. They’ll break in lines, use patronizing tones, and act as if they have every right to take away what is rightfully someone else’s.

TRUEindependant · Feb 2, 2025 5:22 PM

There are some Sajha members who just can’t stand hearing a woman speak. They’re men, they’re superior—that’s what they believe. It’s what they saw their fathers do to their mothers back in Nepal. They grew up watching it, and now they think they can do the same to other women. But here is the irony. They left Nepal only to work under white, African, Spanish, Muslim, and Indian men. So sad. I always remind Sajha members to comment only if it’s related to the thread, but nope—they just have to throw in their personal animosity against me. I don’t get it. Men are supposed to be a little quieter than women. But Nepalese men? They’ve got the biggest mouths.

Sexy In Sari · Feb 2, 2025 9:33 PM

Youre a guy who likes to wear womens dresses. Writing she/her as pronouns doesnt make your balls dissapear like you deleted my post

TRUEindependant · Feb 3, 2025 12:24 AM

पधेर्नि भने पुग्छ होला !

Logan · Feb 3, 2025 6:49 PM

in an unrelated story, the administrator of a failing forum has been caught creating multiple personalities. kasto rahar lageko raixa??? multiple personalities maintain garna pani garo vai sakyo this particular "avatar" of his is an obnoxious, dhammardhus whose body emanates all kind of foul odors, chupa chupped many gas station owners, even managed to get pregnant from one of them, aborted, then moved on to chupa chup more........and now chupa chup gardai yo "avatar" ko pani kya transformation vaye chha. pure opportunistic, shameless, jasko pani chupa chup gari halne, jaslai pani ghochna diyi halne, low life it must be his lifelong desire to play this role!! https://s2.pictoa.com/media/ga...

olioaglio · Feb 5, 2025 9:33 PM

Homeowners are not immigration enforcement agents. Why would they have to care if you're an illegal Mexican or a legal grad student renting the place ?

Burga-Flippa · Mar 27, 2025 3:02 PM