kahile kahi yeso phone garyo nepali sathi haru lai k cha kasto cha bhannalai, sadhai khub paisa chapeko jasto cha, katti salary bhayo. mero salary bossle nadiyeko yetti mahina bhayo bhanera hairaan parchan. phone nai garna maan nalaghne. k ho k ho? yi danka haru. dashaiko suvakamana due bhaneko, phone end garda aafai frustrated. jhan NRN lai call garyo bhane khali sahayog. katti samma garne ho? hamro pariwar chaina? tiniharuko lagi yaha aayera kaam gareko jasto cha.

same here! I tried 100s of times to convince them that it's not what they really think. That's why I gave up and I don't call them these days. I also found the same kind of behaviors when I visited Nepal.

We are living with attitude and relationship is going nowhere. People who live in Nepal think it's the one who went out of country need to keep up relationship. Some of us we think we are the one who is out of country need to call them ( may be show off ?).

Now a days almost every one owns smart phone ( status )  but no one has shown any interest in connecting to you, it is you living abroad needs to reach out living in Nepal. They do not have time to think of you therefore they are not trying to reach you via viber ( I heard new app easier than viber ) or  Rs 1 per minute phone call. I mentioned about : email address is borrowed by children, but the children is not letting you know their parent nor you that it is no longer used by the real person you are thinking.
Are we living in a dignity issue? 

It is stupid thing to convince a person whose mind it pre-setup ( learned from my experience). Why are you torching yourself ?