पाच वर्ष को माया र अमेरिका को हरियो पत्ता!!
पच्च वर्ष सम्म गरेको माया थियो. कसरि बिर्सिने !
अहिले सब राम्रो छ तर हरियो पत्ता छैन . अहिले को लागि त ठिकै छ, तर अब को २ वर्ष मा सकिने work परमिट पछि के गर्ने. काममा सोदेहको h1b पनि अहिले हुदैन भनछ. फेरि इलिगल भएर घण्टा हान मन छैन. येसो सोचेको बरु एउटा हरियो पत्ता भएको नेपाली संगै विवह गरौ कि जस्तो लागेको छ . केटि पनि राम्रै छे . फेरि उता नेपाल मा ५ वर्ष कुराएर राखेको लाई पनि येत्तिकै जा भन्न सक्दिन!
केहि सोच्न सकेको छैन. केहि सल्ला दिनु भए हुनेथियो. के गर्दा सजिलो र राम्रो होला .
Bro listen to ur heart and mind.. yo greencard vayera kehi lachhar patar lagdaina.. nahuda kheri kahile hola jasto hunchha.. vaye pacchi kehii na kehi...I was in the same exact boat. Had the option to marry someone here who was actually kind of crazy about me. But I did not love her. I did chose for my long distance love but it was too late. If u love her enough, go for it.. Apply for diff job, Canadian/ Australian PR. Be a man. You don't wanna settle for someone else who u don't love just for GC. It'd ur life u r talking about. You can always have GC in future, but it will be expensive to get new wife in future.
, Mero chahi dhilai vaye pani Mero company in GC garidiyo, I was in the 7th yesr of my H1B
In Hindi you'd be called 'bewafa'.
If I were you I'd work my ass off until they kick me out and go back home.
I think life in nepal is not bad, you just have to be content inside.
Money comes and goes people are the most important things in life.
IMO , i think you should visit Nepal before you decide on giving up love for patta. After years of Tapasya i got my patta last year and let me tell you something ...NOTHING CHANGES. Sabai tension Jaha ko tehi huncha..you will just have one less tension.
After going back to visit Nepal. I realized that ma yaha ayera 10 barsa basera 50K save garna sakya chaina. Mera sathi harule 50 Lakh ko ta gadi chadera hinchan and 3 to 4 ota jagga kinisake.
Yes im being too generic here sabai jana le nepal ma pragati garya chainan...tara garne ni chan.
Maile last year nepal ayera 25 lakh ko dada ko jagga kinya ..aile 75 lakh bhayecha :) ...so point is paisa nai kamauna lai alikati paisa bokera nepal jau ..nepal yeti misorganized and unregulated cha ki ....paisa jata tattai cha ...tipe matrai pugcha.
I totally agree with @fdpower. Nepal seems so disorganized, but the economy is vibrant, there is construction everywhere. We, who have lived in states for so long try to compare between two countries and it is just point less. There is much more peace of mind in Nepal. No country is perfect, that being said specially in US you are constantly on never ending Hedonic treadmill.
Sometime we realize and sometime we do not. Decision is yours to make, as an individual we have to choose our own path without harming anyone. If I were you, save some money, your motherland will be happy to have her educated and skilled son back. Good luck @nepalithito250 bro.
How do u buy a 50 lakh car if you are starting from scratch in Nepal when avg salary is around 40k rs/ month? Only those ppl who are already from rich family or those who have inherited property such as Land can.
Otherwise it is is impossible. Even if you habe the money ,whats the use. You can't escape dust dirt and rude nosy ppl. If You are humble and honest they think you and dumb. If you are smart ,they think you are doing something illegal and at the end of the day they worship the rich ones and that's it. Don't forget why we had to leave in the first place. If it was such milk and honey why 50 lakhs are suffering outside in diaspora.
Last edited: 22-Nov-18 11:11 PM
@dudenino @sinope @fdpower
Thankful for your suggestions. Seems like there is nothing more then love. aba nepal gaienchha vivha garnichha, sake liyera aienchha nasake afai farkinchha.
Change to Employer who will do your H1b. You can still file one next year. You can remain unemployment for 60 days or 90 days if you are in stem or opt. There are employers who will file your h1b even when you do not have job with client.
Dear Nepali thito,
Grass is always green on the other side of the fence. I agree with fdpower, pahile nahunda patta paaye life nai change huncha lagthyo. Ahile hunda pani tyehi ho para. Pahile desi ko laagi Gilbarco ma tyang tyang ahile kasai aru ko laagi IDE,terminal,conference room ma tyang tyang. Nepal farkeka ani america nai na aayeka mera sathi bhai haru le ramrai gareka chan(not all of them). Ahile lagcha Grass in green on the Nepal side. Whatever decision you are making think wisely.
If you have doubts in your mind about your love back home or green card in US. That means you are not faithful in your relationship. If you are not faithful and have doubts, there is higher chances that relationship will fail/end or you will have depression in few years, whatever you decide. So don't divert your mind in two direction.
If you stay confused you may loose your GC holder.
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