Here is my not even fraction of a penny worth sugestion.

Stop anyalyzing the consequences. stop right there. her heart will be broken( of course she will be broken), your parents will not be satisfied, her brother name, your guiltyness(depends on your personality)  and bla bla bla...Anyalzing this thing doesn't help at all. Future is unexpected, and you never know what might happen next. . And please forgive me i am not trying to be negative here, i am just trying to express my own opinion(you or anybody doesn't have to agree with this). i came up with the conclusion because the person whom you love more than yourself, trust more than the truth that sun rises from the east just vanished with out any reason. So for me Future is unpredictable and that's why you should stop analyzing consequences.

Your plan doesn't get over my head at all. A piece of paper doesn't actually can't help two person to stay together. Nothing will, except the closeness, bond you guys have together. It was my marriage that didn't work out in NEPAL held in the presence of both of our parents and it was a love marrage of 9 yrs,  if you beleive that legally getting married would make you guys to stay forever. You never know. and hey my marriage didn't work out doesn't mean that everybody's won't either. i am just trying to convey that nothing is for sure. All matter is the love you guys have for each othe for now.

Enough about the philohopy from a f**king fagg*t regarding the future, lets come to your analysis.point by point.

The most important thing .Stop being an analyzer. Stop analzying things.

Now your points

Case I

1.  if i could help you finanacially, honestly i really would but you know i am a kangal too. and yes you might down your parents expectations. But hey have you ever thought what your parents want to you be when your at school ? and what you became? think about it.I am not asking you to go agains your parents wishes. but i think every parents are another form of god who will be happy at the end seeing their child living a happy live.

2.
One word. Bullsh**t. doesn't matter what her brother sister or father does. It doesn't matter at all.

3. don't know what make you feel u r too young to married but i thik you are worried about your future live. i don't have good job, house, money career etc etc. Well, when our parents get married, most of them don't have those things either, except few? ever thought about it?

4. I don't know. if you live there in nepal the condition  won't be the same.  Right?. staying in nepal or here would bring another ocean of information so i stop right here. you figure out by yourself.

5. Who says that loving her and getting married and sharing your life with her would make you a rescuer. You do your job, let her do her job and stay together. share the moments, joys, happiness, sadness everything. You will be her part of life, she will be yours. that's it. Beleive me she wont' feel like that your are rescuer for her.  think about like this way. even if you let her go away whoever comes next he would be take her his home right? so would he be a resucer now? hell no? brother you are in too much love. stop thinking like that way. She would never think that you are the rescuer for her.

case II

FORGET ABOUT IT. YOU WILL END UP WITH ENDLESS SUFFERRING.

and

Why you want to go underground after accepting her as your wife. DON"T RUN AWAY FROM PROBLEMS, GET THE BALS YOU HAVE AND FACE IT.  Tell your her parents that you love her and she is your wife and ask for thier blessings. 

DO NOT LET HER GO AT ANY COST.  YOU WILL REGRET IT.

Remember there are some unfortunte people like me in this world who pays for the unknown mistakes that i / we NEVER MADE. Letting her go means you are the one who make it first.


At the end the the people whom you make the connnection and hold you dear is matters. Everything else is just a noise.

GOOD LUCK.