Mc Sire,

Well written article/fact/fiction...... Got a perfect solution for you. Don't ever get married in that case,  choose to "live in" under the radar of parental intervention

On a serious note, I would like to reiterate the lines that you mentioned in your piece. "If parents raise their children with love, can't they be happy in their children's happiness?"

Thats right Libra , beats the heck out of me too!