. Worldmaven, Thanks for kind words, but if it were a disaster, it was my call. I am OLD,*coughs ;_) I could sense two meanings out of this! 1. If it were a disaster, it would be your call [ not the cell-phone talks, i am referring to] to get out of it. I meant this, and if this is the correct interpretation i got from your lines, i agree. 2. If it were a disaster, it was my call. If i interpret it the other way: or if you meant that it was your call which led her to talk those "legal" stuffs to you, and you call it a disaster, i disagree. Contrary to the belief you possess: that you could love two person at a same time, i say: You cannot love two women at the same time ever! My suggestion: for you being such a humble human being, why lose both of them ? [ again: everything i write, is upon my perception and my judgment. I am sorry to perceive things differently, if it was not meant as it is, and i am sorry for the judgment either. BUT , the freedom of speech, i got, right ? ] Nonetheless, this write-up is a masterpiece! : )