I read John's story and then read the comments, most of them anyways. Not one of them said anything about his cheating on his wife. Why do our society oks for a married male to cheat, reverse the position and all hell breaks loose. Good thing the girl had the sense to dump you after that one incident. Yes emotions are attached when you flirt with another lady but what about cheating on your wife? Where do the emotions go? Just a though! Harsh eh? I have always been the one to speak my mind.