Stick to ur heart... do as it says... not being able to answer at the moment just shows that u r not ready to commit to him... i would say for the long run, it won't work out .... cuz if it's meant to be, u'll know it in a moment and u won't need to ask suggestion from sajha... i'm not trying to put u down or mock u, just informing u about the feelings and how u can intrepret it... no, i'm not an expert... but neither is anyone in this matter.. so take it for what it's worth.