‘In life’ as they say ‘every good thing has come to an end’ so here ends my long last relationship with Sajha.  I have never thought that one lousy day I would type these  words and write a farewell letter to dear friends.  Sajha has been very close to heart and wonderful friends I met here. I could have made a noiseless exit but I think its unfair just to leave behind as I owe a lot to Sajha and its family.

It seems like yesterday when I arbitrarily posted a first post four years ago. That for sure was the art of beginning but I think greater is the art of ending. I have always tried not to be rude to sajha members but how hard one executes the etiquette in virtual world, eventually someone might have been offended by my postings. That was not my intention. Take it easy my friend.

Its not easy to bid goodbye rather  it was a sturdy decision, No no no not at any cost I am coming in other username. The fact is  Im heading for internetless place for next few months then again may be I would travel to some strange land (where it may take 2 hours just to open hotmail account).  And when im back (after a year or so) I may not appear in Sajha., thats what I am thinking now. So, I would like to thank all the kind people who were always there to console when I needed shoulder to cry on and to cheer up  when I had a story to tell.  Then, for those whom I always bored with my crappy travel pictures.  Thank U. And of course San bro, for creating such a wonderful SAJHA, ya Sabai Nepaliko Sajha.

Sajha changed  me in  many ways, and I learnt many things. The most memorable part was when I was heartbroken after long relationship and mercilessly dumped by GF, I could never forget the support from  virtual friends, that gave me a tremendous support.  And I forgo to tell my friend Anita Bhandari, is now about to re settle with same funny/joker husband. Just because of suggestions she got in Sajha. I heard she is enjoying her stint in Sajha with private nick name (she even doesnot want to disclose me her username).

Sometimes, I wonder why cant we get all the people together in the world that are like and then just stay together forever? Perhaps it doesnot work. Someone always  leaves  then we would say goodbye. I hate good byes but today im saying it with a heavy heart. How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.

 I would remember Sajha always  and  as a human being I also want to be remembered –malai nabirsanu hai hahahha -- that’s why Im writing this last post.  Its funny but I feel sad. 

I don't cry because it's over but I smile because happened.  

Thanking You all…

Probably my last post in SAJHA

झिल्के फर्कदा मेरो एउटा उखान खेर गयो । मैले चौतारीको लागि एउटा उखान सोचिरहेको थिएँ, झिल्केको सम्झनामा - “हराएको झिल्के, खैरीलाई दान” !

अब झुल्केको झिल्केलाई के पो उखानले स्वागत गरुम् ?

अब उखानले होईन, आसिकले स्वागत गर्नुपर्‍यो । झिल्केको फोटा, आत्मिय कथा, जिज्ञासा र जेपिटिले साझाको डांडाकांडा ढाकुन् ।

मलाई सबभन्दा बढी छोएको झिल्केको कुरा चाही यो हो-

“But this time after my travel there were noone whom I could tell my long stories and share  pictures. That is the time when I badly missed SAJHA.”

मेरा पनि त्यस्ता दिन आउन सक्छन् भनेर नि ।

जे होस्, झिल्केलाई यामान् को पुनर्स्वागत छ । तर एउडा कुरा भनिदिईहाल्छु । यो सम्बन्ध भन्ने कुरो एकबाजी टुटेपछि टुट्यो । फेरि जोडिएर जे सम्बन्ध बन्छ, त्यो पुरानो सम्बन्धको पूर्ण निरन्तरता नभएर आंशिक निरन्तरता मात्र हो । बाँकी अंश त एक फरक र नविन सम्बन्ध हो । त्यो नविनता भएन भने अर्थात् पुरानैमा पूर्णता खोजियो भने त्यो नभेटेर धेरै मानिसहरु केही गुमेको, केही हराएको, केही चिसिएको अनुभव गर्छन् र चकित पर्छन् ।

त्यसैले पुन: जोडिएको सम्बन्धलाई पूर्णता दिन त्यसमा केही नविन आयाम थपेर त्यसलाई पुनर्परिभाषित गर्नैपर्छ । अब यो घोषित वा अघोषित रुपमा गर्ने भन्ने कुरा बेग्लै हो ।

यो कुरा खास गरेर तिक्ततापूर्ण सम्बन्ध विच्छेदमा बेसी लागु हुन्छ । तर अन्य प्रकारको सम्बन्ध विच्छिन्नतामा पनि त्यो कुरा लागु हुने रहेछ । ख्याल राख्नु ।

Nepe