I heard like a nepali guy killed in car accident in Oklahoma.. You guys have some news?

We all know that seat belt is mandatory. I dont understand why all these freaking newspaper just exaggerate the news.. Different news papers have different sayings.But the truth was that he was wearing a seat belt at that time
RIP Balram Dai.“We love you and still have fond memories of you. Be at peace, where ever you are !”
 May Lord provide the strength and courage to the bereaved family.

Let me make it straight. It’s not only about Balram; it’s about all the mo-fo drunk drivers out there.

 

“Condition of the driver was listed as drinking-ability impaired.”

Which part of this simple sentence didn’t you understand, you moron?

 

You say I’ll die alone. Yes I’ll die alone (for I shall not have killed an innocent life when I die). Yes my loved ones will mourn my death; they’ll not be ashamed of it (for I shall not have hurt an innocent life).

 

You said I spit venom. Yes, drunk-driving lowlifes see venom in the truth.

 

You ask me why don’t I just shut up. I ask you this: When will all these insensitive drunk-driving mo-fos will recognize innocent people’s right to life and free speech?

 

You talked so passionately about the “void left in your heart”.

 

It’s always about your wretched souls, isn’t it?

 

How about the void left in the heart of a young bride at the church on her wedding day waiting for her groom, who was killed in his wedding dress by no other than a drunk driver? (The bride later walked down the isle alone, to the podium. When it should have been the time for her time to dance the dance of her life time, she tearfully the eulogy).

 

How about the life-sized voids left in the hearts of four little children waiting for their single mom, who, while going home to her kids after a 12-hr night shift at Walmart, got killed by no other than a drunk driver?

 

You don’t see and talk about these voids, because your pathetic selfish souls see no further than their own boundaries.

 

Finally, to you all mo-fo drunk-drivers out there: every single one of you deserve to die due to your own acts before you KILL another innocent life (because sooner or later you’ll kill someone if you keep driving while drunk).

Tuppi, you are really patmurkha. You are not only patmurkha but also a low life creature as you have proved once more. As I have already written, who doesn't know DUI is bad thing? Nobody needs your lecture here. You are giving lecture to a dead man. Your writing proves that you are a pathetic moron and a SOB.

 

Mr. Tuppi,

First of all, I am very sorry for the loved ones you lost
because of drunk drivers. I know the pain that you feel, and hope that no one
on the world has to suffer through that.

We can see that you empathize on the people who have lost
their friend or relative due to drinking and  driving related accidents. But right now,
people who drink and drive are not reading this post (i.e.drunk drivers), maybe
some ,but most people who are reading this are probably people close to Balram.
So, a person with common sense would guess that the purpose of your writing (to
educate people of dangers of drunk driving) is proving useless right now. I
would suggest writing these same comments on posts that has party or alchohol
as topics or tags, where you can find possible accident makers in future.

The thing is even though you hate drunk drivers (maybe
Balram too), you are inflicting pain on others( people close to Balram) but not
the drunk drivers. If you are a good human being then you would sympathize on
the family who have lost their 2^nd son in a year (yes its true) and
the friends who loved his friend dearly. I bet these are not the people who you
are angry with right? Or are you on a crusade of causing pain to the innocent
family, because its seems like you are doing such. I bet there is no drunk driver who has read this post and said I
will quit drinking and driving.

We can see that you are trying to prove that you are trying
to be a better human being. But we can also see that the others here are not
supporting drinking and driving either.  Please
take your personal agenda to a post where it will be effective. If you are as
good as a human being that you are trying to prove here, then you will probably think about his innocent family for few seconds who you are hurting by writing such comments. If you are still trying to argue and provide more discussion then you
probably are a miserable low life who needs some attention in the expense of
the grieving family and friends.

As a fellow human being, not just being nepali, I would
suggest you to please take down your comments and show respect to the family
and friends even if you do not do it for Balram.

I agree with you tuppi,

Drinking and driving is inviting your own death. So I have no sympathy for that. My cousin was also killed by a drunk driver. So I have no mercy or sympathy for those people who drinks and drive. They not only take own life but will take some others PEOPLE LIFE

Here we are concerned about this guy BECAUSE he is a nepali. What if that guy had killed OUR own family members. We all need to keep in mind

He might be a geneious and excelled in school or won people's heart but HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OWN MISTAKE.

MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE.

I didn’t inflict pain on anyone. Quit blaming me for the infliction of pain. Drunk drivers inflict pain on their own family and on the rest of the world.

You wouldn’t understand the pain of a death caused by a drunk driver until you lose your loved one.

I didn’t come here to lecture anyone or advocate anything. I was simply expressing my thoughts. If you don’t like them, don’t read them. I stand behind my expressions.

It was on that day when a drunk driver KILLED my best friend that I quit feeling sorry for all these drunk-driving scumbags.  If you are one of them, keep reading. If you are not, simply ignore my comments and move on.  

Too many similarities. It’s just not a co-incident:

drunk drivers	9/11 terrorists
kill thousands of innocent people	killed thousands of innocent people
brain impaired by alcohol	brainwashed by al queda
use automobile as weapon	used airplanes as weapons
die while killing others	died killing others
supporters rationalize their actions	supporters rationalized their actions
blame others for others	blamed others for everything

   inflict pain on others/their own family             inflicted pain on others

nned_help2009, I think we all agree with Tuppi but the point is to direct your anger towards the drunk drivers not their family! Right now, you guys are doing a very worthless job of hurting his family by having this discussion.

We can take our agenda outside this post and lets start a new post where we can talk about dangers of drinking and driving. Please please please, anyone who is replying here, I request you to take your agendas and "exercising my own thoughts" into a different post. Let us help the family, alleviate the


pain not aggravate it.

Tuppi/ned help or whatever you are,

I think you guys are missing the point. Dont go to a funeral and bash the dead, its not proper. I agree with your sentiments, dont think this is the right thread to spill it.  I get the feeling you are trying to prove a point and you have a valid point to prove, just dont assume we all are so dumb that we have to be reminded drinking and driving is bad. If you feel the word needs to get out, then start another thread dedicated to the topic. I for one was taken aback by the comments you made on this thread, and I am sure I am not the only one-- peace and RIP to the departed.

I am not talking about the victim family. I am talking about the drunk driver here who is responsible for his own death. I do  feel sorry for his family truth is truth ... HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OWN ACT.

If that is my own child who drinks and drive i WOULD NOT REGRET OR GREIVEEEEEEEE ..GOD GIVES PUNSIHEMENT....THAT IS WHAT HE DESERVES....

Sad News -

We lost one of our friends.

His family is in enourmous pain.

Good News -

He did not hurt any other individual by his illegal act.

 

BTW, I feel so sorry for his family....

 

Mr tuppi

You just saved millions of lives by giving this lecture on DUI. Great work. No one in this world knows about DUI as much as you do. You truly are a great person. You saved the entire planet. OMG with your knowledge on DUI you should be running this world. But i think you dont realize that this is not the right place for your lecture. BTW i really like ur facts, all the comparison betn DUI and 9 11. Good Job.U did quite a bit of research.

Eagleye, I think we need to take a pass on this jerk. He is not tired of giving lecture but does not realize whether this is a right place or right audience. He is just venting his anger on those who did not do anything other than to be related (family, friend or country men) to a person who happen to take his life due to drunk driving. He did not take anybody's life anyway. This thread was not meant to praise a drunk driver but to mourn his death. This jerk never got this point and will never get it. Nobody here denied the fact that DUI is bad thing.

The other jerk (nned_help2009) who says god punished him since he drove while drunk. If that was true, each person killed whether by a drunk driver or whatever reason is at god's will. Why don't you get this point dude? 

There are jerks in each society and these jerks will never learn or know what they are doing. Nobody was advocating DUI here. I am neither a friend or anybody related to the deceased. My comments are enticed by Tuppi's comment.

Guys Lets not fight on this thread, Balram was a like my little brother, i know for a fact that he is not a guy that drinks and drives, that to on long distances. Only one newspaper reported this issue, which i want to confirm, but i just want to let it go and not ask the newspaper because it is form a small town with little resources.

He was a very nice guy, helped people in any and every way possible, made lots of friends and has touched the lives of lots of people that ever came across him. He was brilliant student, a hard worker.

He will be missed!

It is not easy to justify DEATH. God bless all!

RIP  brother!

Tuppi....you are the most nastiest mo fo in this world i've ever seen before. do not forget that your dead body will still be sorrounded by some good people even if it will be the nastiest dead soul.

only a good soul can understand this....not a moron like you.  Only jesus can help you kind of people to think better and live life correctly.

 

 

Cyberdude

i agree with you. he was the greatest guy  i have ever met.So humble and down to earth. He will be missed forever. 
I have been trying to tell these morons that it is not sure whether he was drunk or not and just one paper wrote it and all other papers didnt even mention it. 

Rest in peace brother

nned_help

you really need help. you are one nastiest SOB. who the hell are you to decide what he deserves?

DUI is a serious crime, if that person was not dead .. then he will be rotten in jail.. so just chill man ...

Tuppi and nned_help.I have not seen such an immature and insensitive morons like you before. Just keep your insular thoughts and advices with in yourself. Nobody is concerned with your self proclaimed and one centered advices. Btw you know nothing about the truth.It seems like you are throwing stones at the dark.Do you even know the truth?????????????How dare you guys  to decide what did he deserves???You filthy morons dont you have any sense and morality?
@nned_help i really think you need a help to broaden your knowledge.You know what half knowledge is dangerous?You know nothing?Do you even have any proof?How can you be so sure he was drunk at that moment. It was not mentioned any where except in one news paper and it is not the truth.So just stop exaggerating your  views.

tuppi & nned_help, I think you are some typical nepali jackass who doesn't shy away from death to profit from ( being trying to be know it all intelligent here). In death we celebrate his/her positive sides, achievements not how bad they were. Stupid moron learn this manner or get  kicked out of any funeral processions. We gather here as nepali community expressing our condolences and if you don't wanna be part of it say nothing. Also this is boiling my temperature as you  tributing to unknown coulda ,shoulda,woulda victims when he died alone in this case, the fact fackhead!!  and have some heart mofo !!      RIP!!