Guys,
Love....they say its THE bond of life...strongest emotion that a living being possess. Everyone who is in love or being loved by someone is considered to be the luckiest person on earth. Every now and then; movies, novels, stories depict the saga of true love such as that between Romeo and Juliet, Laila and Majnu....and so on...

Personally I don't believe in what they say THE TRUE AND LONG LASTING or rather EVER LASTING LOVE. I have seen people falling in love one day and breaking up the very next day or sometime later...Haven't got this opportunity yet to witness TRUE LOVE.

What is your opinion about true love..Is it a REALITY or just a mere MYTH?

True love, at times, is traded with the term called unconditional love. Thus, to determine the truth about it on the basis of time period of being together is self defeating argument.

I say, time scale is secondary; realization is primary.

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Right, agree with you. Literature does not define true love in terms of time period of being together either. Physical distance is trivial. True love is pitted against lifetime commitment, quality of passion,sense of care, co-operation and mutual understanding between the partners regardless of the amount of time you are together.

True love, at times, is traded with the term called unconditional love. Thus, to determine the truth about it on the basis of time period of being together is self defeating argument.

I say, time scale is secondary; realization is primary.

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Right, agree with you. Literature does not define true love in terms of time period of being together either. Physical distance is trivial. True love is pitted against lifetime commitment, quality of passion,sense of care, co-operation and mutual understanding between the partners regardless of the amount of time you are together.

Thus, to determine the truth about it on the basis of time period of being together is self defeating argument.

I say, time scale is secondary; realization is primary.
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Agree with you. Literature ,if there is any, does not measure the truthfulness of love in terms of the amount of time the partners spend toghether. Physical proximity is trivial as always. True love is indeed pitted against the quality of passion, care for each other lifetime commitment and mutual understanding between partners.

Talking about uncoditional love, I don't think any love ( between partners) is unconditional. When we say there has to be a compromise in love for understanding, love auomatically comes out of the bound of being unconditioned.

देख्यो केटा केटिहरु, लप परो भने कस्तो मान्छे कस्तो हुन्छ!!!!!
Tehi bhyera Love doesn't atrracts me...ONLY PAIN DOES....:)

Nirman, this is very true for me too. No love all pain!
talking about fukin true love being myth or reality! fukin its hard even to find a true fukkin friend these days!

sorry about multiple postings.

SAROJ JE MAILE GALTI GARE USLAI CHODERA...........TAPAI LE SUNA KHOJEKO TEHI HAINA................maa aagyani thiye maa ghamanda ko samundra thiyo......te sabai ahile saamyan bhaka chan.........tara bagisakeo kholo lai kasari maathi baagaune ho kuni.....Tara i realised relation are not perfect nor it works , u have to make it works...this is nature of law.....( gyan parpta bhayo...ali dhilo aayo tara chetaana deera gaayo, aba chai paakai behe garne ho nepal gaayera......tyo pani jhaat maagani paat behe)

ey ho MM, I cannot even understand your posting any more. Searching for the philosophical side. aah!

Or it is the affect the grass?

highfly, i have stoped smoking grass tara i do drink atleast 5 glass of wine after work.........kina bhane i dont need weed anymore to be high.....i am always high now coz of chetana. Tyo chetana ko agadi sabai nasha haru feeka hudo raicha....ani high ji.....tapai le gaza khayo bhane thik cha tara gaza le tapai lai naa khawos hai....

zalim ji ..............one question hai.....hami kina aru ko philoshopy maa dherai dudbchau...ke hamro maan le te kura haru lai kelara buddha le jastai gyan dina sakadea nau.......aru guru guru bhanera bhaagchan...........tara guru ta bhitra nai cha haina ra...tyo chakra ko saambada lai yeti haluka linu bhako...

personality conflit tyo managment ko student ko sochai bhayo.......mitra ali dub nu paryo......tara mero chakra ko bare ma thread aaudai cha chaadai..

ahile hk ma 4 big conference le garda sabai resturant mara maar cha....teti fursad na hudaina........i promise by monday

true love???? wazzat???? lol

>> Nirman, this is very true for me too. No love all pain!
talking about fukin true love being myth or reality! fukin its hard even to find a true fukkin friend these days!
-->राम राम के भनेको रातु ढुङ्गे ब्रो, साझाका साथीहरुले सुने भने के भन्लान हेर हेर!!!!...:P
But in true life out of Matrix world, I don't find any true friend too...Maybe I am not true friend either, Maybe I m just a wanderer, Maybe I m too much isolated to let anybody wander into my life...OOOOOOOOOOhhhhhh There are so many maybes...:(...Doe anybody knows why????...:-S
:)

RED STONE YOUR ARE MORE THAN 100 % RIGHT.
"fo...... king even hard to find true friends these day" very true.

All I met turned to be DAM OPPORTUNISTS. Even, very close frs or relatives or the one who were so much trusted. Aba ta pugyo YAAR. Affno sur gara gina. Don't expect anything from others. That's the killer. If you can help DO IT only if you don't get hurt, otherwise screw it. Follow it; the middle path to make yourself comfortable. Then no pains or watver.