i have to ask this.. for those of you who are in the US: how many of you intend to go back to Nepal at some point in your lives? why wud u want to / or not want to?

for those who r in Nepal, do you think we shud come back ?

I think its not up to them that we should come back or not. Its up to u and me, Do u want to go back or not?
May I know the reason behind this questions. Personally, I would go only if necessary else I prefer to stay here.

Nepal is my maiti and US is my home. I will go nepal as I am going to Maiti and come back to my home. One thing I have to admit that I miss my Maiti so much and can't wait to go there again.

Ofcourse, Nepal ! It is where I belong. There's always 'but's that's making me a nomad.

As Noone said earlier, just strolling around in ktm, and sitting at the front of shops at ktm, and getting into gossips ! Ohh, what a feeling !

Nice one dalli!!!

yeah it is up to us.. but u know everytime u call home n' they are like ohh dont' come back at all.... n' then in sajha u hear ppl talk about improving nepal... being involved... I dont' think anyone is ready to go home after finishing school.... which is fine by me, i totally understand but i get tired of listening to ppl bragging about things that needs to be done to improve the condition back home..
personally i can't go back, i won't have a job back home what I wanna do doesn't really exist in nepal, i am into marine sciences- marine mammals and i dont' think i can do much back home.. so I am here to stay.

Nepal is my Matribhumi and US - karmabhumi lol.. .

Nepal is both matri and karmabhumi for me though it might take sometime to make it karmabhumi. We can always find excuse not to go back.

It's not bragging that we do when we talk about the stuffs that need to be done or improved there. When I do that, I just wanna see whether we can locate the exact cause of problem there.

Finally, I owe to the people there, and I need to do something sooner or later, and there's noway that I can forget about them n' there.

If U want to do U can do from anywhere. May be U are having some excuses so that U won't feel guilty. But I think U should stay here n make ur career n U can do a lot more for nepal from here.

samayale manish lai kahaa kaahaa puryaucha, i'll go with the flow, i don't really care, nepal ma huda pani ramrai thiyo yaha pani thikai cha. sathiharu chahi kam chan nepal ma thuprai thiye. tyestai ho. bhanya jsto hunna jeewan jasto bhogyo ustai huncha....

no matter how healthy you are, you can't say you will never be sick, sometimes you will difinitely get sick and have to get treatment. same thing...no matter what, you can't say that u would never go back to nepal, sometimes you must have to go back nepal because of life style, freinds, family etc.........!!!

back to nepal in 2010

THERE is no DOUBT that i am going back.....but it be another 5 years or 50 years i don't no yet...tara i want to go back ............

the most common reason for one's not going back to nepal is simple.we are paid less for the same amt of work done.
i am a nuring student and although i miss nepal,i don't think i am going back there to work as a nurse coz first of all nursing is not viewed as a respectable profession there as it is here.also you're spending so much on your studies here,you will want to earn more later when you begin with your career.
just my opinion.

To me ...i don't want be like "GORU" here, just work & home everyday.what can we do with weekend off here? we even have to make an appointment to meet our freinds here...man what 's the life here... we even can't make our biggest festival dashian, tihar, loshar here.
i would difinetly go back to nepal next 2 yrs if nepal become peace, but for sure...2010!!
PEACE GUYS

hey we celebrate dashain and tihar here too mr gurung.
u gotta be in new york.we celebrate everything.
but ya,it's not as much fun as it was back in nepal. but better sth than nth right?
i plan to go back to nepal after i graduate too.may be 2008.so dear nepal ,here i come.

I agree with u all. Tara yeso bichar garda , nepal gayara pani kay garnue...na kaam cha ...na kehi garna sakincha na garna nai dinchan.....there is so much obstacles...i strongly agree w/ mrgurung. yeha life sucksssssss........kaam ani padaie na khana ko thaygan na sutna koe....paisa is manything but not everything.......kay garnue yo paisa lay matra" HATA KO MAILA< SUNAKOE THAILA, KAY GARNUE DHANA LAY SAGARA SISNUE KHAYA KOE BAYSA AANADHI MANALAY"....mari lanue kehi chaina...ma ta for sure ferkincha.....tehi vhayara children health and development padira...UN OR WHO OR redcroos ma jagir try garnay ani ferkinay afnoe des ma ktakti padaunay school khojnay ani dinvhari padaunay ani rati vhari cahhai padnay budi saga......

सबैको बिचार आफ्नो ठाउँमा ठिक लाग्यो। तर ग्वाज्यो जीको बिचार अलि मन पर्यो मलाइ, शायद मेरो व्यक्तिगत बिचार संग मेल खाएर होला।
मेरो व्यक्तिगत बिचार भने नेपाल नै फर्कने छ। केहि समय अबश्य लाग्छ। केहि सिक्नु छ, केहि बुझ्नु छ!
यहि धागोमा कसैले ठिकै भन्नुभएको छ " कतिपय कुराहरु नेपालमा ठिक छैनन्- जस्तै- वेरोजगारी, प्रतिभा संकुचन,राजनितीक अस्थिरता ईत्यादी। तर बिश्वको सबै भन्दा विकसित देश संग तुलना गरेर नेपाललाई हेर्दा त धेरै कुरा अस्त व्यस्त देखिन्छ र बिकास स्तरको Gap बढि feel हुन्छ र यसले झन झन बढि नेपालमा बाँच्न गारो छ भन्ने अनुभव गराउँदोरेछ। अर्को कुरा केहि वर्ष अमेरिका वा अरु कुनै बिकसित देशमा बसेपछि सुबिधाभोग गर्ने एक किसिमको बानि पर्दो रहेछ र त्यस्तै स्तरको सुबिधा नेपालमा पाइन्न भन्ने अर्को त्रास अन्तरमनमा पर्दोरेछ जस्तो लाग्छ मलाइ। शायद यस्तै हरु पनि धेरै कारणहरु होलान जसले हामिलाई यो सोच्न बाध्य गराउँछ कि 'के नेपालमा अब बाकि जिवन बिताउन सकिएला त?' भन्ने। यि बाहेक अरु आ-आफ्नै आस्था अनुसारका सामाजिक, आर्थिक, धार्मिक अनि व्यबहारिक कुराहरुको संतुष्टी त नेपालमा जस्तो हामि नेपालीलाई कतै गए पनि हुँदैन।

birkhe GOOD birkhe GOOD. u speak many nepalese BHASHA who are out of country for years and years. Those who are in Nepal are dying to go out but those who are ou of nepal dying to go back nepal after being rich

Lets blurt out the real truth!

US for sex, Nepal for marriage :)

Nepal is my future and Nepal my destination. I will definately go back in the near future which in less than 2 years. I feel stuck here for a year or two. I miss Nepal so much, my heart aches, if you know what I mean.

Here is are the lyrics from Disneys' Alladin that describes how I feel:

Oh I come from a land, from a faraway place
Where the caravan camels roam
Where it's flat and immense
And the heat is intense
It's barbaric, but hey, it's home

-Shiv