Everyday talk with family starts to fade once you live more than a decade in US. The only responsibility I see is with core family grand, mum, dad & siblings. People have changed in Nepal. Once you visit there, you will find out. Its just our mind saying we have to visit after a decade because Sahara Koirala would go there every year and she might nudge you, why you are able to stay here for 11 straight years ? Your home is where you live and your happiness is inside you. Now your priority is to work on H1B and have some experience and money. Didn't you wait so long to have H1 ?