Yo brother.. Ny is just like that. Whether you lose or you win. Come down to Beantown and you will understand the life in a better way. And of course your views about different groups of people will also change. People say "US is the melting pot of the world" well SEE how true that is !!!@#$ I say Boston is the melting pot of all sorts of Nepali: HMM that's sp true. Seems like you are bit educated!!!! BRo did you read that story in 9th or 10th or maybe 8th grade Mahendra MALA titled "PALAko Paicho"" and do you remember the very first line: BHEDA BHEDAsit BAKHRA bAkhra sita (should have been bakhri sita.. lol) well that's how this world is. If the world was so perfect ... what would be the purprose of being alive?? anyways bro.. for now (I am running out of time) I will say learn to live the American Way... Don't give a damn about what others think.. or try to do to you. Time will come when you don't even feel like peeing in thier faces (they will look so ugly by then)... hmm.. yeah bro COME down to beantown. Wait for my much serious posting. JAI NEPAL