Altijdgoede,

Thank you so much for coming out of that shell and writing to me. Regardless of what you wrote, that you wrote is very important to me :).

I am extremely sorry if I in anyway have hurt your feelings by calling Nepalis stupid. But unfortunately we are stupid. That includes me. I am no superior to anyone plz I think you need to correct yourself on that. I am at times utterly blunt which is not accepted by a lot of people. I tell white and black. grey is not much of my favorite colour. :)
Maybe you are right, in last couple of threads I have been complaining about Nepalis being stupid. I normally share my experience here in sajha so could be that it has been like that with me. Let me read few of my last posts and get back to you on this personally.
About communication skills, to some extend I agree it was my fault that I should have made it in legal papers. Because, English has been a second language for both of us, for sometimes I took the products back and fixed it. But honestly saying, it was getting really disrespectful at the end that is why I took such drastic measures of cancelling the whole order.
Like Gwach Aquarian said, their skin tone should not be a criteria to get intimidated. I actually know few people, who are doing business with her already and they are not happy at all, but they are doing it coz "Paisa aaudaicha ni". I dont believe in doing that at the cost of your respect.
My whole point here is not my business transaction, these foreigners being really rude and dominating with us Nepalis. And who to be blamed? Us of course. Trust me, there are hundred of instances I have gone through where I have seen boot licking. Just one example is, restaurants in thamel. ( Another topic for a new thread :P)
Thank you for commenting....good bad ugly......but please do not label me as superior to anyone. I am learning and trying to maybe vent out my frustration in sajha at times :).