@bairaghi..... You are funny. ED is totally different thing and I am not talking about ED at all. I am talking about the general growth pattern and how things shifts gradually in men and women. I am not saying men totally stops having sex, I am saying their need shifts from being too sexual to more emotional. Though at any given time, normal men have higher sex drive then women, men tend to become more emotional as they mature. One reason is hormonal change.