The statement does make sense tho:People,whether man or women, are mostly in search of what they have been missing in their mental,physical and emotional departments in their living life--to give them a sense of complete effecting.A girl brimmed with emotions might,in the long run, vie for some solid anatomical bearings which would provide her strength to fill the missing gaps.Likewise,a guy with rough and tough temperance might find emotional department amiss and which, he must look after to make his existing life absolute.We all go after what we don't possess before.

From what I heard also,people usually are of two types.One will aspire and work hard for their personality development and the second one would wish and work hard for their soul development.Nevertheless, a complete experience of life--for both parties-- should entails all features of what human beings are capable of "experiencing".