I am not here to comment who is right and who is wrong. By nature we are different and we think differently. The only thing I would like to share is, I lived in US for almost 11 years and returned back to Nepal 11 months ago for good. There are couple personal reasons why I came back leaving back my decent job and life in the US. Trust me when I left US, I was not happy with my decision myself.

Now looking back 11 months, I don't regret returning back to Nepal for good. We cannot expect or compare Nepal with US, because we are top from bottom and US is top from top. Life is not that bad in Nepal (my personal opinion). I agree nothing is systematic, everything seems slow and unorganized, that is why this is Nepal.

Who ever wants to come to Nepal for good, only one suggestion I would like to give is, he/she should have patience (lots of patience). Other things gets adjusted slowly. Most of us spent 17-18 years here (assuming you left Nepal when you were at that age) so we know what to expect.