Trust me everyone was pretty suprised as to why they would spend that much. However they've both had great jobs and that was their only child who also earns alot in the US. Plus they have loads of land etc. I still could not compehend why they would spend that much, its a down payment for a house really. However I do think  40-50 lakhs is okay if thats what everyone is spending in your fam right?

I would love the Mandir option but I do not think my parents would allow it, haha.